Walking through the halls,
Wave as we both pass,
Never say a word...Never meant to last.
Watching, waiting, and wanting to be by you,
My hopes and dreams are nothing new.
I hate to hide, I hate to say,
I hate to look away.
Now I see the one i want,
The one I can't have,
Can't flaunt.
Want to hold, love, and touch,
Want it to be,
Just as much.
But as I sit in the warm spring air,
My heart aches,
My hands bare.
How do you deal with a break up? How do you get over an ex when they were such a big part of your life? How do you find the right words to tell someone to start a relationship? If you were faced with these questions, how would you answer them? Relationships are easy one minute, then the next they turn for the worse. Why do you think it's so hard to get over an ex when they were in your life for so long? A friend of mine was dating the same guy for almost a year when he broke up with her randomly one day. Now this wasn't the first time, but it was definitely the last. It has been about 2 and a half months since they broke up, but she isn't over him yet. Do you think she is being over dramatic if she cries over him? Do you think she should be over him after so much time? If you answered yes to both questions, then put yourself in her shoes. She and this guy had something, and i mean really had something. Her friends (me included) have told her that she needs to get over him, but now that i think about it, it was a selfish thing for us all to say. If she isn't over him, then we should be there to help her through this time in her life. Another story is about a girl who was dating a guy for a little over 4 months. The two of then really had something as well, and more then one person saw it and saw that they really loved each other. They recently broke up and the girl is heartbroken. Do you think she should be so upset even though they weren't dating that long? But does length of a relationship really matter? Or is it the depth of the connection that the two people shared that really matters in the end? All of the questions i have asked can be answered easily if you have never had to go through a break up or bad relationship, but when you have, they aren't as easy as they seem. Relationships are hard at times, but if you fight through the hard times and enjoy the good, you will come out stronger in the end. Relationships should never be too hard if you were meant to be, but if they are, wait it out and enjoy each others company. And now you know :)
